Monday, June 23, 2008

Jealousy: Inclined to or troubled by suspicions or fears of rivalry, unfaithfulness, etc., as in love or aims

In the term jealous, that's actually plenty of definition but the above one stated the best to describe me or in any case, most of the couples. Maybe not every time but I am trying to control this emotions. People can see jealous as a good side of a love but can be also picture as a negative impact in relationship too. Allowed me to bring you through. Being jealous is due to fact you care for that particular person which is very natural in a relationship but if such jealousy bring unhappiness and trouble to that particular person, this not caring, rather it is your own desire.

To love someone, is to respect her and her friends, in any case not not hurt her. Instead embrace her wrong decision - it's understandable a guy tends to protect a girl or sometime, over protecting her, but she needs to make one mistake for her to realise who is the right friend and who are the one who only take advantage of her. If we, i mean the guys, can't embrace her and respect her decision then this is desire, this is over control and this is clearly shown no trusting bond is between the both. If that's the case then must well just buy any pet back to control and put in the cage better.

I know protecting and caring the girls is a must-job for the guys however if you take the lead and walk in front all the time, without allowing her to know whose the bad guy and who are real friendship then things gonna get real nasty when you leave her. This will definitely not gonna aid her in her growth. Maybe we tend to have the mentality of ' YES, let her fall and to learn how to stand up but oh, dun let her fall TOO BADLY". But you have to understand if girls choose the hard way, she will fall in a hard manner. Let it be, it's hard I know but if you really love her i think you will welcome her back to your heart openly. Some girls just need a big "wacked" to realize who's good and who's not, they may regret, they may not but the bottom line is, they will know we meant for her good all year round.

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